Shut Up and Stay Married breaks new ground with a new and refreshing approach to marriage which guarantees relationship and marriage success.

The Key: Marriage success depends on your view of YOURSELF not your view of your spouse.If you see yourself as a worthy and valuable individual you will be able to Shut Up and Stay Married when your spouse says something hurtful or when your spouse does something you don’t like.

Part 1

Instead of being hurt and insulted when your spouse  says that she is disappointed with you or he says that you were inconsiderate, the book will teach you how to be “good with yourself” so you don’t feel the need to respond with your own negative comment.

Marriage success has been shown to be based on the ability for a spouse to “repair” the negative comment received from her counterpart. The techniques in Shut Up and Stay Married show you how to become untouchable and unaffected by a spouse’s negative  comment by grounding and centering  yourself . These techniques will build more than your self esteem-they will help you build a “self”.

With your “self” intact you can learn to say: “I understand  you are upset by what happened. Let’s talk it through”. This will stop the escalation of an argument and allow spouses to maintain composure and maturity when they discuss a contentious issue.

Part 2

The book also provides hands on techniques to build a healthy relationship through positivity and effective compliments

Part 3

The self techniques also apply to raising children and the book illustrates effective strategies to motivate children for success and healthy self esteem.



Why Do One of Two Marriages Fail?

In this groundbreaking, easy-to-read book, psychotherapist Yisroel Roll helps you discover the secret of a successful marriage.  It's not about your spouse or what you can do for your spouse.

The secret lies with you.

This transformative book offers hands-on strategies to breathe new life into relationships. You'll learn simple techniques you can use every day to

  • Find happiness in marriage
  • Get along without hurting each other
  • Prevent small arguments from escalating into major blowups Build an atmosphere of trust in your home
  • Rekindle the deep feelings spouses once had for one another
  • Feel good about yourself-and your spouse

You'll also discover how to create a happy family, empower your kids, and motivate them to thrive.

Yisroel Roll, a psychotherapist in private practice, has inspired and helped improve thousands of marriages. A dynamic motivational speaker, he has presented marriage workshops around the world.

Front Book Cover

Shut Up and

Stay Married



February 9, 2014

You will learn to:

  • Build your self esteem
  • Have empathy for your spouse
  • Be in Love Again
  • Focus on the good
  • Not respond in anger
  • Stop taking pot shots at your spouse
  • Speak in intimate way
  • Revive your marriage
  • Communicate Effectively

Spaces are limited

Attend as a couple or on your own

Couples work is preferred

Seminar Leader:
Rabbi Yisroel Roll, LCPC

Motivational Speaker
Marriage Therapist
Self Esteem Expert

"The author's insights are a breath of much-needed fresh air. I recommend this book highly to anyone who seeks to improve any relationship."
E. Edelson